April 16, 2008

CAMY'S 2ND BIRTHDAY PARTY!!!










Our precious Camy turned 2!!! What a blessing it was to see her running around playing with the kids & eating birthday cake. A couple of months ago we did not have any idea what God had in store for her but thank goodness she is a little fighter & with every one's prayers she was able to celebrate here ELMO Birthday Party!!!
Annalei REALLY enjoyed Camy's new Barbie car, thank goodness Camy did not care about it because Annalei the Princess that she thinks she is did not want to share!!!
Also, is that not the cutest little dress Camy is wearing & the hat that Camy's mommy is modeling??? My sister made both of them, I think they are adorable!!! She is starting her own business if anyone is interested!!!!!

April 3, 2008

HOW PRECIOUS!!!



This is the most precious thing you have ever seen or heard!!! You have got to check it out, you will be glad that you took the time for this little blessing!!! It will definitely bring a smile to your face!!!!

March 25, 2008

Florida trip to see Mamaw & Papaw!!!

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I am going to try to catch everyone up on all the FUN things we have done since February!!! My siste Pam, Annalei & I flew down to Florida to see mom & dad in February & it was Annalei's first flight since we had brought her home from China. She was not so sure of this big airplane & thought she wanted to sit in her own seat until it started going, she got a little scared & so I put her on my lap and before we were up in the air she was asleep & stayed asleep until we landed. Rough trip for Annalei!!!

We had so much fun, she went to the beach for her first time (no pictures because it was to windy & the sand was flying everywhere)we went to visit my Aunt & Uncle & of course her favorite part besides seeing ma-maw & papaw was seeing Mickey Mouse & the Castle!! We went for a day trip to Disney & she was so quiet all day we were not sure of what she thought, but OH MY GOODNESS that is all she talks about & keeps asking to go see the Castle & Mickey again. She really did not care about the rides but she loved to watch the parade & the shows.

If you are all wondering where Dalen is he decided to stay home so he would not miss any school. He was working on perfect attendance & would receive a trophy at the end of the year. Things changed though because after we got home from Florida Annalei got sick & gave it to her bubby. So much for the trophy & to think he missed out on a trip to Florida & Disney World!!!

March 20, 2008

2nd GOTCHA DAY!!!!

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Ok, I know I am really slacking in the blogging department but wow this past month has been a complete world wind and anything you can think has happened it probably has. I have so much to post but I will just try to do a day at a time if I can find the time to sit down instead of clean the house or do laundry since all of that was put on hold this past month as well.

Yesterday was the big day our "2nd Gotcha Day" with Annalei. WOW, it is so hard to believe that 2 years ago this precious little baby was placed in my arms that at the time was a complete stranger to us & we were to her but in our hearts she was our daughter & I was her mother. She did not know at that certain moment that I was her mother for life but 2 years later to hear her call me mom now still brings tears to my eyes. I feel as if I had to earn that privilege to be this child's mother!!! I thank God each day because when this little miracle of a baby was born half way across the world God knew she was ours for life but we had no idea that was the path that was chosen for our family. So many people don't understand the bond you will have with a child that may not be biological but it is a feeling like no other & we would do it over & over again if that was God's plan.

That moment 2 years ago with 9 other famlies is a moment that will never be forgotten & a feeling that no words can explain expcept absolutely AMAZING!!!!

We Love you Baby Girl you are so Precious!!!

February 26, 2008

PRAYER REQUEST for CAMY!!!

******HOME UPDATE
I want to thank everyone that has emailed or called regarding Camy. It really has meant so much to our family all the concerns, thoughts & prayers. It has been three weeks since the surgery & Camy seems to being GREAT, for the most part. She is still in a lot of pain but that is to be expected after such a major surgery. They did have a set back once she got home, her older sister had strep and little Ms. Camy got it also. They were very concerned because she was not drinking but once her antibiotic kicked in she felt a lot better & started drinking & eating.

They have felt encouraged since the surgery and has been able to see some progress in her due to speech & physical abilities. She has started her therapy again & hopefully they will be able to see some progress in her as well.

As we have seen what the Power of Prayer can do we would appreciate if you would still keep her in your thoughts because the doctors have said since they were not able to remove the mass completely that it will grow back as she grows. This could be a procedure she will have to continue getting as her little body grows & I am not sure if that means in to her adult life (forgot to ask that one). We are just hoping at this point that the doctors could be wrong & it will not grow back. I know they are hoping not to go through this heartbreaking procedure with her again.

We thank you again & I want to apologize for the delay in this update. As we all know life can cause complete chaos & we have no time for the things we should be doing but have you running & doing things that was not planned.


******SUNDAY & MONDAY UPDATE
This has definitely been a roller coaster ride but what do you expect from such a major surgery. Yesterday I was finally going to go visit Camy (with me being sick I could not go earlier), my sister called & said they were not allowing Camy to have any visitors because they were concerned again with her stats. They wanted to run another sleep study & were going to take her off her pain medicine to see if that could be causing the oxygen problem. I can't imagine if she is still in so much pain with the medicine how she was going to be without medicine. Sometime though during the day they realized she was needing her pain medicine and they went ahead and gave her another dose. They are also having trouble getting her to drink any fluids. She continues to throw up, so that was another concern as well.

I waited until this morning to see what the results were showing today. They seem to fluctuate so much on a daily basis. They decided she has sleep apnea & when she does fall asleep it keeps showing her respiratory machine go down to 0, but she does not actually quit breathing. They said she starts crying when it starts becoming critical & then it seems to wake her up. They were not as worried about the oxygen/sleep apnea but said she could not go home until she started keeping fluids down.

Well tonight I received a call & my sister said they have come home!!! Wow, what a shock & a little confusing, but they said she may recover better in her own atmosphere. As long as they can keep liquids down her she should be fine but, if not, they live close enough to a hospital that they could get her there fast enough.

At this point, everyone is glad to be home but they are a little nervous & will have some sleepless night just monitoring her & making sure she keeps breathing. Once again we thank you all so much, you all have been so kind & we are hoping her progress will continue!!!

******SATURDAY UPDATE
Hallelujah, there is a new baby today at Riley Hospital!!! Last night they did the sleep study & 10 minutes into it they found what they needed, not sure exactly what it was that they found but it seemed to help. She has been a whole different baby today however they will still need to monitor her oxygen level while she sleeps. The doctor is very encouraged that her stats are normal .

There was a whole new atmosphere in her hospital room today & when I spoke to my sister their spirits were up!!!! Camy was actually alert & was starting to become mobile until she found out she was hooked up to a bunch of wires. Our little Camy has been touched by all of your prayers.

Our family cannot thank you enough for all of your thoughts and concerns. Each day we are looking for positive progress and one step closer to bringing her home.


******FRIDAY UPDATE
Do you ever wonder when you are put into a situation how much you could handle or how much strength you have to stay strong? I truthfully believe that God will only give us what we can handle and he must give mothers a whole lot of strength to pull us through when it comes to our children. It is bringing tears to their eyes each moment they keep looking at Camy. I wish I could update today with better news but unfortunately things have become worse. The doctor is now concerned with her stats. Her oxygen level has dropped immensely and that is even after they put her on oxygen. They thought the morphine was causing her oxygen to drop but without the morphine her blood pressure is extremely high due to the pain she is in. They are wanting to do a sleep study because they fear she will stop breathing while she is asleep. They are monitoring her closely.

It breaks my heart each time I talk to them, their voices seems more discouraged, but I know they are keeping strong for Camy.

Thanks again for the concerns & most definitely for the prayers

******THURSDAY UPDATE
Well, when they said today was going to be rough I am not sure if they expected to be so heart breaking. I just spoke to my sister & Camy is in a lot of pain. They tried to switch her to codeine but that was not working as well as the morphine, so they switched her back. She is running a high fever & is throwing up but the doctor said this is all part of it. She lost a lot of spinal fluid and her body has gone into shock. They are watching for fluid on her brain because she is very swollen. They have not let her come to completely yet, but she is crying & keeps saying "it hurts". Their hearts are aching because they can not do anything for her but just hold her.

Please keep praying because they said it looks like a few rough days are ahead, but they keep saying the surgery was still a success!!!

Thank you & we appreciate all the emails & your thoughts

******UPDATE AFTER SURGERY
WOW, Judy Publow you are so right the Power of Prayer is Amazing!!! First of all I want to thank everyone for their prayers, thoughts concerns & the emails. They are very much appreciated. The surgery did not get started until about 1:30pm and was told it would be a minimum of 4 hours. The nurse kept coming out with updates and letting them know how things were going, but the last one at 5:30 brought tears to everyone's eyes. They said everything went beautifully which was a huge relief for everyone and that the doctor wanted to talk to Matt & Amy (parents) alone after they stitched her up. Once Amy talked to the doctor she said that the mass was so large that is was growing down through her spinal cord and there was so much pressure that it even broke off 2 of the little bones at the bottom of her brain stem. (For all my friends that are nurses I am sure I am not saying everything medically correct but bear with me). The doctor said she has been in a lot of pain but they feel like the surgery was a success!!! They even let her come to a little and she was able to move her arms & legs, what a MIRACLE!!! They said tomorrow would be a rough day and things should start looking up from there.

I wanted to let everyone know that I may not be able to respond to all your emails, but I woke up with this nasty flu/cold that everyone seems to have & it has really got me down today. So, I was not able to go to the hospital, which was very disappointing but I knew they did not need my nasty germs there!!!

I will keep you updated as the week goes on because she will be at the hospital for 7 days. We still appreciate the thoughts & prayers for our little miracle baby for a speedy and pain free recovery!!!



******NIGHT BEFORE SURGERY
We are sending this post to all of our loved ones to ask you to please keep our great niece Camryn (Camy) Quiggins (Amy's daughter) in your thoughts and prayers. She will be having very risky brain surgery tomorrow, Wed. Feb. 27, at Riley Hospital at 12:00pm. She has had a mass growing on the rear of her brain and it has wrapped around her brain stem and spinal cord. The growth has started growing very rapidly and, if not removed, will cause her to suffocate. The presssure from the growth causes her to choke when she eats and prevents her from sleeping due to her airwave closing off when she lies down.

As you look at this precious little girl, who will turn 2 next month, it does not appear that there are any problems but the growth has affected her sight, speech & hearing. They are hoping after the surgery all of her functions will return. The neurologist did not want to do this procedure because she is so young but they have no choice now. They will be removing some of her brain, brain stem and a part of her spinal cord. Camy and her family will have a rough and long recovery after the surgery. They are estimating the recovery time to be 4 months to a year - involving intense therapy and possibly paralysis.

We really need your prayers for Camy and her family. My sister and Amy just keep saying they hope the neurologist gets a good night sleep and has a steady hand!!! As you can imagine, they are tremendously concerned with this delicate procedure.

Thank you so much for keeping Amy and her family in your thoughts and prayers. I will send an update tomorrow night once I get home from the hospital.
Chad, Terri, Dalen & Annalei

February 1, 2008

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Well, I decided to take the kids up to get their pictures taken this week at "Picture People" where my niece works. Have you ever left and wondered why you even try to attempt a photo shoot of your kids????? Thank goodness for my niece, she knows when to take the picture at the right time!!! Annalei only knows 1 smile and that is "Cheese" with no eyes showing, you have Dalen that was giving fake smiles that did not look natural & did not want in the "Black & Pink" pictures ONLY "Colts". I am still not sure why I decided to attempt to have a clothes change, expecting a 2 1/2 year old and an 8 year old to cooperate for 1 sitting is hard enough, let alone 2!!! Well, after we took the photos "Picture People" was packed with people waiting to get their pictures taken, it was a Monday night who would of thought!!! So, we decided to go get something to eat and shop a little, we come back and had to wait, wait, & wait a little longer. WHY, because I was family, we still had homework, I had a restless little one that was ready to go home & go to bed and we still had not seen our photos yet. Finally, it was our turn, by that point, Dalen was constantly asking for everything in the mall, we were all out of pretzel sticks that Annalei could eat and to top it off they gave all the kids there balloons and Dalen and some other little boy kept hitting each other. My nerves were shot!!! So, when we left (3 hours later)I had NO idea what I bought and if I even liked them!!! I just kept saying that is great give me that one. After an hour trip home we did home work and I put them both to bed, I woke up and looked at the pictures once again, and LOVED them!!! Thank you Amy for putting up with your "CRAZY, STRESSED OUT" Aunt, you did an AWESOME job!!!

By the way all of this was for my cute little purse that I got for Christmas that has a photo panel on the front and you can change them out with different pictures!!! I needed a horizontal picture of my 2 kids!!!

January 14, 2008

MAYBE NEXT YEAR!!!!

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Well we couldn't do it 2 years in a row, but we are not giving up. We will pack up the jersey's until next year & hope to bring home another Super Bowl win. We may have to let the other "Manning" have it this year.

Even though it was a SAD loss we all still had a good time together, ate lots of GREAT food and enjoyed watching the kids play. Hope you enjoy the slideshow, and you will see everyone was supporting their "Blue & White"!!!

January 11, 2008

OUR MAGICAL CHRISTMAS 2007!!!

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How magical it is to watch Christmas morning through a childs eyes!!! I anticipate it as much as the kids do. This year was more exciting for Annalei. She was starting to understand who Santa is and she knew to tell him that she wanted a "Kitchen"!! And was it ever obvious on Christmas morning!

Dalen was a bit excited too, to say the least. He awoke us at 1:30 am the first time and repeatedly for the next 2:30 hours. Finally I convinced him to lay on the couch until about 6:30. I had to wake Annalei. She was a bit drousy at first, but then when she realized Santa had brought her kitchen, she was full of life. Dalen was completely through opening all of his gifts and busy playing with them before Annalei came out of her new kitchen. She had little interest in opening her other gifts. Santa had delivered her kitchen and she was in heaven. She would even yell out and say "Thank You, Santa!! We have enjoyed many meals since! What a fine chef she is!

January 4, 2008

2 YEARS AGO TODAY!!!



We received the long awaited call at exactly 2 years ago today at 1:25pm!!! I had not learned the patience of God's timing until that call came in, since then I knew what ever God had in store it was worth waiting for!!!! Our social worker called and I really was not thinking it was "THE CALL", until she said we have a "DAUGHTER"!!!!! Her name is Gao Shao Ying, born on June 12, 2005, that call changed our lives and our hearts FOREVER!!!

December 22, 2007

MY PRETTY PRINCESS DRESS!!!






















My sister made the most beautiful Christmas dress for Annalei this year. Annalei thinks she is a Princess and twirls every time she puts it on. Mommy won't let her keep it on very long because it has to make it for Church tomorrow and for Christmas day. So here is just a rough draft of what she will look like, we are minus the tights, shoes, pearls and our hair was bed head!!!
Thank you Aunt Pam, I feel like a "PRINCESS"!!!!

DECORATING COOKIES!!!!

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PICTURES with SANTA!!!











This was the year for Santa photos!!! Annalei has decided he is a really cool guy!!! We were very shocked when she jumped right up on is lap and NEVER wanted to get off. She won't go to hardly anyone and we have a rough time leaving her with someone when we need a babysitter so I may have found the perfect sitter from now on!!!!

December 3, 2007

4 LITTLE DANCING ELF'S!!!

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November 29, 2007

KIDS CHRISTMAS PHOTO'S!!!

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A few weeks ago while we still had some beautiful November weather, my friend Kindra took some GREAT pictures of the kids around our little town of "Gosport"!!! Believe it or not there were some really nostalgic places for them to be taken. There were to many good photo's not to show them all, so I put together a slide show to show them off!!!

Thanks again Kindra you did an awesome job!!!!

HALLOWEEN 2007!!!

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OK, I know I am a couple of months behind and it is the wrong Holiday to be celebrating but since my computer crashed at Halloween I never got to post my cuties all dressed up!!! I put a slide show together of all the fun we had during the month of October, between carving pumpkins, the fabulous Halloween party that Kindra and Kelby put on and then of course "Trick or Treating" where we are still eating the candy they got.

Hope you enjoy watching because we sure enjoyed all the FUN we had doing it all!!!

November 21, 2007

WE ARE BACK AND READY TO UPDATE!!!

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The computer has made it home from the hospital and everything was saved!!! I am so excited to be able to post pictures for the holidays!!! There is so much to update and I am going to start with Dalen's 8th Birthday party at Caribbean Cove. It's an indoor water park and we went over "Fall Break". The kids had a ball and the parents were exhausted afterwards. Thank you so much Debi, Scott and the Smith's for taking off work and coming and joining us in all the FUN!!!!

Aunt Molly thanks again for the wonderful cake. We all enjoyed, like always!!!

November 2, 2007

PLEASE STAY TUNED!!!!

My computer has crashed and is making a fast dash to the emergency room!!!! There is so much to post and so many fun pictures to see from Dalen's 8th birthday party at "Caribbean Cove (indoor water park), Halloween party where the kids and adults had to dress up, to trick or treating and then this weekend the kids are getting their pictures taken for Christmas cards.

So, please pray that the computer doctor can get things fixed in a flash and keeping fingers crossed that no pictures have been lost!!!! Hope to return real soon!!!

October 23, 2007

MONDAY NIGHT FOOTBALL!!!!












WOOO HOOO!!!! We are on a roll again 29-7 against the Jaguars!!!! Can the Colts do it 2 years in a row???? Are family was ready for the big game last night, we even let Dalen stay up until 10:00 (I know shame on me) to watch the game!!!! He is so obsessed with football right now and as you will see he is posing with one of his new birthday gifts, a trash can!!!! What kid asks for a trashcan for his birthday???? Everything he asked for his birthday and now Christmas is about football or the Colts!!!
GO COLTS GO!!!!!

October 20, 2007

WEEKEND with MY GAO SHAO SISTER!!!














































A couple weeks ago one of the famlies that we traveled with to China came to stay for the weekend. We had a wonderful time and the girls had a lot of fun playing. They arrived on Friday and we had dinner and celebrated Dalen's birthday with Red Velvet cake!!! Then on Saturday the dad's took the girls for a ride on the 4-wheelers. Gigi even decided to drive all by herself!!! After the day of fun riding and we got ready and the mommy and daddy's went out for the evening to the Purdue vs Ohio State game!!! Let me just remind everyone that my husband graduated from Purdue and Matt & Gigi are HUGE Ohio State fans!!!! Guess which side we sat on?????? OHIO STATE, Chad stood out in his Purdue attire with all the Red and White Buckeye fans, but Chad had NO smiles at the end of the game when OS beat us 23-0!!!!

I am so glad we live fairly close to each other because it will give us the chance to keep the girls in contact with each other. It still amazes me after just spending 2 weeks in China and sharing such a magical moment on "March 19, 2005, Our Gotcha Day" with other 8 other families that we will all share a forever bond for a lifetime!!!!